Attending a wedding — especially one that involves travel or an overnight stay — requires more preparation than a regular trip. From the right outfit to the right shoes, gifts, and everything you need to look and feel your best. This list covers weddings of all types, from relaxed countryside events to formal city affairs.
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Personalise for Free →Follow the dress code on the invitation — formal, black tie, cocktail, or smart casual. If no code is given, smart is always safe. Avoid wearing white, ivory, or cream (reserved for the bride) and overly casual outfits. When in doubt, slightly overdress rather than underdress.
Pack a Tide stain remover pen in your bag — it's a wedding guest's best friend. Blot (don't rub) immediately, apply the pen, and let it dry. Most light stains will disappear. For larger spills, ask hotel or venue staff for help.
There's no universal rule, but as a rough guide: close friend or family member — £75–£150+; work colleague or acquaintance — £30–£50; couples can split costs. Always check if the couple has a wedding list first — most couples prefer contributions to specific items over generic gifts.
For outdoor weddings: pack flat or block-heel shoes (heels sink into grass), a light wrap or pashmina for shade and wind, sunscreen, insect repellent for garden venues, and a small handbag with essentials. Be prepared for weather changes — bring a compact umbrella.